Gilles Adam

I guess you should truly know who i am ,I don't really know how this is to work, but hey! here is an exclusive. If at my age i do not know what and when to say, then what would i be? When a wise man sees he has probably spent about half of his time in life already, he begins to assess his main goals in life. What could be more important than a happy ending? LOL,. A man needs to live his life full of joy and happiness. No matter his achievements, he is reduced to nothing if he has no crown to complete him and that is a woman to call his own. Wife and Best friend. A woman who knows that even while arguing they still need to hold hands. A woman whom i can call a partner in crime,lol A woman whom you can tell anything. How could you think anything can make you happier in life than finding a love that knows no bound. To make you know more about me,.I will break this down to segments and it would be like a case study.

I am Gilles Adam , an engineer of international repute. I deal basically with oil platforms ranging from Europe,America to middle east and far east Asia. But really i am hanging the hat this year, i think after getting all the wealth in pursuit, i have come to realize that we are nothing without a partner, someone who would stand by me no matter the situation. A woman who i can say, she alone has the right to be womanly irritating to me,lol. A witch who would protect me like a lioness would do her cub,lol. and i can promise to protect her beyond all vices. A woman who tells me honey you can do it,no matter what i want to do. I really worked hard the past 23 yrs to attain this height.

I have seen faces of women on this site, many of whom have been taken for granted, many of whom are not being reciprocated, but i have come with a good news and a bad news... the good news is i came here to pick my woman to make happy, my eight wonder, my best friend, my copilot, but the bad news is that i have only one woman to do this for.lo

I saw something in your face, something that made my heart pause to read you, something that tickles in the heart, could it be love at first sight? maybe we could find that out,lol.

I'm talking about faith here when feelings are so powerful it's as if some force beyond your control is guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams.

MY BACKGROUND

I was born to a loving couple and home by an American man from California and a British Canadian woman. My father was an international business man who met this British Canadian orphan whose only family were close friends.. She says there was something about the man that no woman could ever resist, sometimes she says she sees same in me,lol. During my father's global movement, when i was eigtheen i left to study in lethridge Alberta in Canada where i got the first degree in civil Eng and then i later moved on to join them back in the UK. My father died and she was left alone. I met my ex-wife and best friend in Paris and we got divorced ten years ago after we lost our son in a terribly car accident ,she couldn't cope with the incidence and decided to go back to her parent in Paris to get motherly care which i promise to come and meet her there after she has settled down but life fact change and she met her first boyfriend which she told me she had no more feelings for anymore but unfortunately she did and they continued from where they stopped and this was what lead to our divorce , what a sad story but thank God for my life so far.

I just want you to know that how you look doesn't matter to me , all i am concerned about is the heart and what you to give me in return when i give you the whole love , attention and care in this life.

MY JOB

I am a global contractor. I do basically rig constructions and renovations. or over water bridges. We have worked at many countries across the globe. The present project here in Abu Dhabi U.A.E is my last on the field and i shall quit field works and continue my work from my home office while my men do the field jobs. I think i really have gotten to this height cos i embraced work for so long trying to get over my ex-wife, that i worked this hard, but i think i now realize i can move on.

MY DREAM

I have told you how my typical dream day would be like, i just want to spend the rest of my life enjoying the fruit of my labor. I just want a woman who would be my best friend and everything. You know someone whom we would still love each other more as the days pass by, even when we cant make love anymore and all we could do is play bingo,LOL.

Now tell me more about you....what do you do for a living?what do you do for fun?whats your best color?whats your best meal?e.t.c

I am a total package , i only need someone who understands the value of a good smile.

I cant wait to hear back from you.

Gill

this is the latest email.

How are you doing this morning sweetie , I am so glad that we had a wonderful chat yesterday ,I just got to work, even though late, but then, i have four locals down with serious injuries and one gone. This is the most painful thing i have come across. Now the site tow they were rushing to fix before my arrival, did swing into the best place after rolling down on them before time, so they were catalyst to its best position, but they did pay a hard price for this. I hate accidents on site, sometimes it makes you feel like not having to use local labors, because they sometimes make these mistakes that doesn't make sense. I feel bad enough to feel responsible for them. The four have been taken to general hospital now, i just pray for the best for them, i pity the family of the deceased. They spoil my mood this morning cos they should have waited for us before making such vital installations. These are men who lack basic insurance for that matter, risking their lives and now i feel responsible for what has happened to them. Maybe i should have been on the siteearly enough.

Can't write much this morning honey, would try later. Just know that you mean a lot to me and i really appreciate you dear. The joy i feel in recent days is my best.

You have a nice day on my behalf ok.

Love

Gill
xoxoxo

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Morning my love, how was your night? Guess you slept and your night went well. I hope your day is starting out well and that your fortune is good. Mine went well but not as productive as it supposed to be. After a long day, your mail i first saw makes me relieved of all the stress had been through. It has been long I see a woman having time for a man because women nowadays seem to be "no-care". I'm glad we met because in you, I found what I truly like, that makes me happy. I don't worry about writing to impress because a person should only be who they are and if they connect with someone nature will take its course and besides I would worry about insincerity creeping into my words. I try to keep it simple and let the rest take care of itself. I do believe that you have to love someone for the person they are and if that person wants to make changes on their own it is alright, but not because the other person demands it of them. If I fall in love with someone I want to fall in love with the real them and not someone who ends up someone totally different. One thing I do think because my instinct never deceive me, it has proven itself to me again that we are really compatible on the things we like to do. I really do enjoy hearing from you.


I would like you to know that when I think of you, what I can say. You make me smile. It is exciting to hear that I have had such an impact on you. I am feeling more and more drawn to you and feel that you and I could be a great match for each other. As a matter of fact I did sleep really well; I got to sleep in for once. Since we only have words for now, I dream of you and think about what the future will bring. All I want is someone that will round-up my heart that will fulfill my dream. I believe God meant for us to share is lives with someone special. I am looking for someone to share all of these things, a woman to wake up next too, share breakfast and coffee, a woman to come home too and share the day’s experiences, to have someone to share your hopes and dreams with. I want someone to share the hopes and future with me, and we can make them all come true together.


What a coincidence with the weather you were having in there? Here the temperature in Dubai few minutes ago, down about 8F, just relaxing and right now I'm listening to Green Day-Brain Stew). I listen to music every day and listen to all genres of music as well. I would have to say that I'm not a big fan of Rap but I respect it nonetheless. I am partial to some heavy metal. I listen to a variety of sounds: Blink 182, Police, Tracy Chapman, U2, Alarm, The Cure, Depeche Mode, Echo and the Bunny men, Life House Shania Twain, Christina Aguilera, Backstreet Boys, B-52's, No Doubt, Creed, INXS, Jewel, Kelly Clarkson- A moment like this (great song). There is so many that I like to hear that I can't name them all. I'll listen to some Country and some old school like the Doobie Brothers, Fleetwood Mac, Stevie Wonder, and Phil Collins. Really I could go on but the one that really gets me is Eric Clapton- Tears in Heaven...


I really enjoy your e-mails and I've got to be honest with you, I am very taken by you. Your letter I read every day has literally put life into me. I always look forward to your next response and I understand how you feel if you don't hear from me because I am feeding off your next response as my next nourishment and do not want to go hungry till the next time I hear from you. I know that there is something special about, I can feel it in my heart. I have a caring desire for you want to continue to grow to know you more!


I was just thinking that I should clarify something. You have a way with word I found your opening letter very sweet, interesting, and refreshing. I'm sure any other man would see the same qualities and be interested as well. Your openness is a quality I value myself and you will find me to be an open book. I am a one woman man and I am patient to be with someone who values a true relationship as much as I do. I like to do the little things and when I am in love, I love to think of new ways to express how I feel. I do not think putting all of you out there for someone is a sacrifice at all but a gift or opportunity. I would like the woman I feel to show me love because she wants to and not because it is something she needs to do to keep me. A relationship can be hard work sometimes but it should be a labor of love and the simple loving ways should come naturally out of the way you feel about your partner. What was strange to me about you is that, you are different from all women have seen, and that, is a plus.


For a relationship to work there has to be trust and commitment. Doing so brings equality to your life, a chance to learn something new, trust and gives both a chance at peace, rest and happiness. Otherwise what you would have is a master/slave situation and I for one do not believe in slavery. To have true love both involved have to love the other equally. To have a relationship both involved have to be willing to work together to improve their life and to create a lasting relationship. Equality in a marriage equals equality in love and happiness.


Hehehehe... Do i ever tell you that I love to smell cool with cologne “Mambo” ever heard of it? Sometime I use Hermes and Mayeki. The gifts I would list for you to buy if we were shopping, nothing. I do not actually ask or expect anyone to buy anything for me for any reason. I do not have the type of personality that would make me desire gifts. I know to some it would not be normal, to not want or ask for gifts. If people want to give me gifts to make them happy, I will not stop their happiness but I tell them that the thought that they cared enough to think about me is all that really matters.


Awwww... you wanted to know what my favorite meal are; Salmon and other fish, Salads, Bar-b-queue with slaw, Apples. All fruits and vegetables, healthy foods and steak... though i am not a picky eater. Hmmm.... Animal, that would be Polar bear and Dog. Where i wish i could live if i am to make choice in California? That would be Brentwood, Seattle or Laguna Beach. And favourite cities i have been too are, Salt Lake City, Utah and Lincoln City, Oregon. Best thing i have accomplished, first prize in a science fair contest in the thirty grades on Frogs, even though the frog died! LOL!!! Back rub would be nice while my favorite actor is; Al Pacino, Clint Eastwood, Paul Newman, Robert Redford, Harrison Ford, Tom Hanks, and a bunch of others while Actress is, Meryl Strep, Meg Ryan, and others (can't recall names at the moment). Favorite past time right now: thinking about YOU!!


Where would I like to go for a weekend, in the world or the US? I really do love to spend weekend in south-eastern Utah, the tiny town of Moab with you. You will like it there because this desert town is nestled in a valley on the banks of the Colorado River between dramatic red sandstone cliffs. Wide, empty deserts stretch across the horizon, dotted with towering mesas and sharp rock formations that seem to reach for the sky. With awesome scenery like this, it’s no wonder that dozens of filmmakers have used the rugged region as a backdrop in films like City Slickers and Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade. I have researched every place that I had thought about visiting when I was a kid and I have learned enough though the years that I no longer feel a desire to visit them. But Moab is a place I will love to visit one day when we are together. Moab was founded in 1855 by Mormon settlers.


Color; I prefer two tone over a single color; blue/black, blue/silver, silver/black, gold/black, silver/gold. I really do not have a favorite color. My favorite Movie; THE BIG LEBOWSKI (1998) It’s the probably the most hilarious film ever and pure Coen brothers gold. Every line is dripping with both literal and hidden hilarity. The cast are a perfect backdrop for an even better cast of characters, the most iconic being the ever-entertaining “Dude”. The most original film I’ve ever seen and flawless entertainment. I can’t to drive on Land Rover gift from you.


I do not think that I have a lucky number, not even the numbers given with my horoscope have ever shown to be any luck for me. But will never forget the day we met, it has been prayer answered. I am right-handed, but I do something’s better with my left hand than my right… LOL. Sports; I love Soccer, football, Swimming, Beach Volley Ball and Baseball.


I hope this tells much about my favorite things its first time in a long time I have even found words to write. I feel like I have already met you by the connection we have via email. I hope that we can finally meet face to face soon, some day. I was so excited to see your email, which it has set my day great. You have a lot of qualities I have been looking for.


You still make out time to write. I mean after all these years; i would have thought i might not have the possibilities again of having my dream woman, my partner, and my best friend and co-pilot. I'm talking about fate here - when feelings are so powerful it's as if some force beyond your control is guiding you to someone who can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams. I wouldn’t be scared anyway, because truly, Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. The inevitable truth is, if it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame.


I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one I am on the Geologist and Rig in the coast of U.A.E. I have to wake up every morning by 5 to catch up my chopper down here. Working from then till late at night, and yet being able to be distracted by this woman. I have over 450 labors here, both skilled and locals, yet all could notice a new glow on my face. LOL. Bishop Nelson and I, have always stayed at Nelson's in his CA home, he just got married almost three years now. He found his woman on the net and to be sincere, he inspired me.


Oh my dear I am so sorry, I thought I have answered your questions…. I am a global contractor and as you know. I am a Civil/Petroleum engineer and I do basically Rig Constructions and renovations. But right here in U.A.E (Dubai) I am working on constructing a very large Rig in there platform, which is capable of drilling down to 100,000 feet in 900 feet of water. Yes. An apartment was supposed to provide me to stay, but I don’t want to in the apartment, because I needed to make a research on the going construction how I can achieve dreams on the Rig Construction perfectly. So I decide to stay a hotel and silent area so know any disturbance while I design rough sketch.


I did not buy a house again in the states until now, because i would love to find my woman first, then building a home would start from there. I am being true to my feelings, as my old friend would say, Never question if you are in love or not, because if you were you wouldn't need to ask. So the best of men, would accept what they feel without questions, because truly, Love and death can’t be escaped, no one can tell, when, how, or where. It is never too early or too late.


What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you have or the lover? Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in an instant, it will surprise you before you know it, but it will be the most rewarding experience you will ever have. If you are as open minded and simple as me.


Hope this will continue to grow stronger as we go along. As I write I ask God to help me with the words, for it is His words that are being said. Take care and be well