by Ballerina13
Tue Feb 02, 2010 12:01 am
Hello!
I am a professional dancer who offers dance lessons to make some extra cash. It works well for me, I even have an advertisement of sorts on a dance website. I am a cautious person, so my ad does not include my name or number, only my gmail account.
I often receive emails from potential clients asking for a resume and rates. I got one a couple days ago from a woman calling herself Amber Sanders saying she wanted a ballet tutor for her daughter, Kimberly. Thinking nothing of it, I replied to her with my rates. After I sent the email I checked her address, and noticed it was a yahoo.co.uk (English) email. I live in Michigan, so I was confused as to why someone in England would ask me for dance lessons.
I receive a reply saying she does in fact live in London, but her sister lives in my city and Kimberly would be living with her for a few weeks. Since she would be away from her regular dance classes, she wanted a private tutor to help her keep up. She and her husband thought my rates were agreeable and they were excited to book me for X amounts of lesson for X number of days, which amounted to $550. I replied saying this would be fine. I also asked for more information about Kimberly's dance experience, and for her sister's name and address so I could contact her for verification.
This is where the scammer kicked it up a notch. I receive a reply sounding so excited about our deal! She explains to me that Kimberly had a different private tutor who had to quit due to a death in the family, but Amber (the scammer) and her husband had already paid him in advance for Kimberly's lessons, but he promised to make arrangements to get the money to Kimberly's new teacher. As I'm sure you've guessed by now, the money could only be transferred to me via Western Union. It was explained to me that I would need to provide Amber with my full name, address and phone number so that she could send me a check for $1850. I was to deduct my share ($550) from that and send the remaining $1300 to Kimberly's travel agent via Western Union and that would be Kimberly's spending money while she is in the States. She even made up a detailed story about how all expenses had to be handled by the travel agent because Kimberly was a minor and that was required by the US Embassy. (And by the way, she never did address my question about who her sister was.)
Thankfully I am not an idiot and smelled a scam by now. I wanted to see how far I could push it, so I replied as if it really were Amber I was speaking to me. I told her I wasn't comfortable handling all of Kimberly's travel money, I would rather just receive my share. (I did this because she asked me if her proposed method of payment was ok, I wanted to see what else she would come up with.) She replied asking me to please reconsider. Blah blah blah, she didn't have a bank account that would allow her to send international currency, it would take too long to convert pounds to dollars, blah blah. Then she said "You seem like an honest person, my husband and I have no trouble trusting you with the money."
I sent one last email (not really sure why) saying no, give me $550 cash or Western Union money order, or no deal. Needless to say, no reply.
I am so glad I didn't fall for this, because I was truly convinced up until the Western Union talk. I am a starving artist of sorts, but not so starving I'm stupid! Never EVER accept any deal that wants you to use Western Union. That's my story! I hope it can help open someone's eyes.
I am a professional dancer who offers dance lessons to make some extra cash. It works well for me, I even have an advertisement of sorts on a dance website. I am a cautious person, so my ad does not include my name or number, only my gmail account.
I often receive emails from potential clients asking for a resume and rates. I got one a couple days ago from a woman calling herself Amber Sanders saying she wanted a ballet tutor for her daughter, Kimberly. Thinking nothing of it, I replied to her with my rates. After I sent the email I checked her address, and noticed it was a yahoo.co.uk (English) email. I live in Michigan, so I was confused as to why someone in England would ask me for dance lessons.
I receive a reply saying she does in fact live in London, but her sister lives in my city and Kimberly would be living with her for a few weeks. Since she would be away from her regular dance classes, she wanted a private tutor to help her keep up. She and her husband thought my rates were agreeable and they were excited to book me for X amounts of lesson for X number of days, which amounted to $550. I replied saying this would be fine. I also asked for more information about Kimberly's dance experience, and for her sister's name and address so I could contact her for verification.
This is where the scammer kicked it up a notch. I receive a reply sounding so excited about our deal! She explains to me that Kimberly had a different private tutor who had to quit due to a death in the family, but Amber (the scammer) and her husband had already paid him in advance for Kimberly's lessons, but he promised to make arrangements to get the money to Kimberly's new teacher. As I'm sure you've guessed by now, the money could only be transferred to me via Western Union. It was explained to me that I would need to provide Amber with my full name, address and phone number so that she could send me a check for $1850. I was to deduct my share ($550) from that and send the remaining $1300 to Kimberly's travel agent via Western Union and that would be Kimberly's spending money while she is in the States. She even made up a detailed story about how all expenses had to be handled by the travel agent because Kimberly was a minor and that was required by the US Embassy. (And by the way, she never did address my question about who her sister was.)
Thankfully I am not an idiot and smelled a scam by now. I wanted to see how far I could push it, so I replied as if it really were Amber I was speaking to me. I told her I wasn't comfortable handling all of Kimberly's travel money, I would rather just receive my share. (I did this because she asked me if her proposed method of payment was ok, I wanted to see what else she would come up with.) She replied asking me to please reconsider. Blah blah blah, she didn't have a bank account that would allow her to send international currency, it would take too long to convert pounds to dollars, blah blah. Then she said "You seem like an honest person, my husband and I have no trouble trusting you with the money."
I sent one last email (not really sure why) saying no, give me $550 cash or Western Union money order, or no deal. Needless to say, no reply.
I am so glad I didn't fall for this, because I was truly convinced up until the Western Union talk. I am a starving artist of sorts, but not so starving I'm stupid! Never EVER accept any deal that wants you to use Western Union. That's my story! I hope it can help open someone's eyes.