by Just saying
Tue Jul 16, 2013 11:12 pm
This man targeted me a week after I joined Match.com. He and another man both winked at me on the same day and both from Salt Lake City. One said he was Scottish and one said he was Norwegian. Perhaps they were working together. Within a month one had left for Malaysia, the other one for Accra Ghana. The Norwegian man told me he loved me after two weeks. Said he was a mechanical engineer specializing in the installation and repair of oil rigs. Within a month of accepting a contract in Ghana his computer crashed. He said he was doomed and couldn't finish the contract because they only had crap over there. I volunteered to help but he wanted an $1800 Apple and at the last minute an iPhonegs unplugged. I balked when he couldn't get the money to me. Turned him in to Match and broke things off. Within days he had convinced me to start over. In no time he was asking me to get a VPN but got busted again. He wormed his way back into my heart and then began coming down with a series of illnesses: food poisoning, iron deficiency anemia, bleeding ulcer, broken ankle and malaria, not to mention panic attacks, depression and threats of suicide amidst drinking bouts that exacerbated the ulcer- all to add drama and garner sympathy. Now a worker got paralyzed when a mud tank fell on him. It was going to cost $65,000 to replace the mud tank and he fell short of raising enough money from family and friends, me included. Lost the contract subsequently and now was being sued by family of worker for compensation. Judge was racist and fined him $50,000. Confiscated passport. He was jailed. Had to pay bail. Norwegian Embassy got fine reduced to half. (Upon inquiry they had never heard of him). I tried to help with court fine, back rent, food. He started having friends who owed him money send clothes and merchandise to me to reship to him so he could pawn the stuff and pay his bills. I read about reshipping scams and refused but still things arrived. Lost $7,000 and 16 months of my life. It finally ended when another woman he tried to scam alerted him to a blog I had posted after the computer/VPN incident 14 months previously. Nothing I had done to get him in trouble to include filing complaints with Western Union, Match and IC3- nothing had phased him until he found out about the blog on Topix. I had never been able to find anything on him in all these months except for one of the 9 photos he sent. a friend found it on an oil company site. It was of a geologist in the Congo and he had substituted his head. He was very alarmed to find I had discovered this deception and called me a ninja. Now when anyone googles his email or name it goes straight to my blog which lists his modus operandi in detail. Unfortunately the best relationship of my life was with an African romance scammer.