by liberiangirl
Wed Oct 16, 2013 2:39 am
I met this guy on a social network called Internations.com. After sending me one inbox message he quickly moved to email only and he deactivated his account. I am already very skeptical so I didn't give my heart or any hope to his emails and my replies to him were very cold always but he insisted in writing me. I asked him where he was from and he never replied, he just said he lived in the Netherlands and working in UK. He mention that he freezes his bank account for security reasons while he is off shore (so I assume he wanted to use this later to ask for money?) He said he wanted to buy a flight ticket to the country where I live, to come meet me, but I just sent him off, I told him not to write me anymore, that I don't trust him. I found out right in time he is a scamer by googleing parts of his emails which led me to this website where I found exact copies of his scam emails. So here I am posting them so other girls, like me, can find out that his emails are scam too.
Email 1
Hi ----,
It is already a fulfilled day for me because I am able to get in touch with you. You seem to have the attributes every responsible man would ever wish for.
My name is James,i am a structural engineer,i get to work offshore(on sea) in BVI(british virgin islands),i left Amsterdam a week ago to the UK,but would be leaving for offshore tomorrow,i decided to close my profile because i dont think i would be returning to Amsterdam.i would be having a busy day today,have alot of meetings and shopping since we are leaving for the sea tomorrow,and i also have to go to the bank today to freeze my account,we normally freeze our account before going offshore,due to the fact that we have bad network here,and its difficult for banks to reach us while here,its company policy anyway.
Anyway,my interests are pretty simple: I enjoy dining, art and especially tennis. I'm currently too busy with work to be in a league play but I still play socially and for exercise.
I'm a One Woman Man and not a serial dater, because a serial dater is someone who is immature and this is because he or she cannot focus on one person or one aspect. I don't double date. Clubs and bars are not my thing. Tennis has introduced me to a few women and got me some dates, but nothing serious or long term.
I also enjoy movies. My current favorite is "Man of steel." I generally like movies with surreal premises and/or foreign movies, but I'm not a cinema snob. Romantic comedies, horror flicks and movies with lots of explosions are cool too.
What am I looking for in a woman? I don't like the idea of making a laundry list of qualities or physical parameters that could exclude some wonderful people. I had a painting instructor once tell me that "there are no ugly colors - only ugly color combination" - and I really believe that. My life experience may tell me that I find a personality trait unappealing, but that may be because I've only seen it combined with other traits that were uncomplimentary. So I'd rather not make a list. Let me just say that I'm looking for someone who's looking for someone like me.
I don't like Using obscene language, being disrespected or disrespecting people, poor hygiene and bad attitude.
I can keep writing but it will only get more boring to you. I think these words would print part of my image for you to understand me better. Do you mind sharing some traits you're gifted with? I don't mind you sharing what you think might be horrible about you, I can love horrible things, most especially from a beautiful woman like you.
I will be waiting to hear from you soon.
To be continued...
Thank you
Hugs ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,James
Email 2
Hi ---,
I had a great DAY, with thoughts of you all through. Thoughts of you were so refreshing to me. I feel so great about you. I feel like I have a great companion in my life right now. I have been anticipating writing you an email. Why am I getting addicted to my email? I get a good glow on my face just waking up to read from you which is a wonderful feeling. After so many thoughts all through my dayt, I just had to putting my thoughts into writing to share with you. What wouldn't I do to make my dreams come true? I need a woman to call my own before I loose the best life has to offer me before I get too old. I have come to know that we spend the most of our life seeking for the secondary needs, while our primary needs are left unseen. We have worked so hard and attained some wealth right, but for what purpose? To be realistic, except one wants to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you don’t have a partner to share with. All the millions are useless indeed. How much do we need to eat? How much do we need for shelter? How much do we need for daily fun? Excess and excess leads us to vanity. But for few of us who value the simplicity, we sure would do well in finding happiness. As I always say, money can buy a good bed, but never will money buy sleep. It can buy the best diamond watch, but can never buy time, It can buy piles of books, but can’t buy knowledge. It can buy food, but not satisfaction, Money can buy sex, but can NEVER buy love. That is why, I refuse to follow the crowd, so as for myself, I would give up all that can be bought for that which can’t be bought. I want true joy and happiness. I want my woman to have power over my moods; she can make me smile in all weather.
I am glad that I could get your attention my dear. You have a special thing in your heart, and I intend to find out what it is. It could take a lifetime to figure out, but I don't mind.
so sorry for the late reply,the storm knocked out the internet here.
I will be waiting impatiently to read from you.
Yours charming,
James
Email 3
HI ---,
Hope you are feeling as happy and great as I am feeling after getting back from work and opening my email to see that there was something to read from you, I am so glad that you shared all you did with me, it is really glaring that we are heading in the right direction. It was a great day at work today. Things went as planned and in order all because of the refreshing thoughts of you flowing through my mind.
Who are you? A woman being a goddess, or a goddess pretending to be a woman? Whichever you are, you are doing something special to me. I mean after all these years; I sometimes think I might not have the possibilities again of having my dream woman, my partner, my best friend and co-pilot. I won't be scared anyway, because truly, Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. The inevitable truth is, If it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one.
The curiosity of meeting you in person is killing me,really hope to meet you in person soonest,i really want to meet that woman at the other end that makes me smile like a baby,anyway i would be out of here on the 1st of Nov,can i come over and take you out on one date?,thats all i ask,turning me down would really break my heart ,i would travel to the moon to meet you if that is where you are.
What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you have or the lover? It has come to my understanding that you give love a chance to swallow you up and don't just think it will happen in an instant, it will surprise you before you know it, but it will be the most rewarding experience you will ever have.
I thank you for being so open minded and simple as me, I can promise you that the sky is the limit for us.
I long to read from you much more...
By the way,i am 37,read back to my first and 2nd email and you would understand what i do and my goals.
Your Prince charming
Email 4
Hi ----,
Do you think you have listened to your heart? Listen to it and you will find out how much we stand to gain! I am just a man who wants my best friend with me. Someone I can look at and smile for no reason. Someone I can’t wait to get home to be with. Someone to hold in my arms and whisper to her ears. Someone to run my fingers through her ears. Someone who is never afraid of telling her deepest thoughts to me. Someone who sees me more as her twin.sex is needed in a relationship,but definitely not the main thing,its more like the icing on the cake,all i need is a woman with a good heart ,who can stand by me no matter what,so really i am not disappointed at all.
Glad you are also interested in meeting me,if i am to come down to your country to meet you,what airport is the closest to you,would ask my nanny in a couple of days to get my flight ticket with some money i left with her for the kids(it normally more than enough for them),since i am offshore and we normally freeze our account before we go,i cant get it myself anyway,so let me know if 1st of nov,is good enough for u,i just believe no matter how long we chat,we can never truly know eachother untill we meet in person,and you are worth it.
hugs and kisses,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,james
Email 5
Hello My Sunshine,
You must wonder why I call you sunshine, it's because I can't get the picture of you off my mind. The thoughts of you lights up my heart. I feel like giving you a hug. Just as the sun, lights up the earth, you light up my life. You are just a lovely woman with a heart so bright. The only reason this was possible is because you must have portrayed yourself well and you have been the wonderful being you're made of and this is truly the best I can ever wish for of a woman. If I ever fall in love with you for beauty, I won't walk more miles to see more beauty, If I love you for wealth, I won't walk more miles to see more, If I love you for smiles, I would see more on TV, but the only thing I can fall in love with is You, which can't be cloned or gotten from anyone else because its being You that makes me want to give up everything I'm doing just to be with you. Like I said earlier, it takes a life time to try knowing the reason why you feel the way you do with some people. The answers are never there, trust me, the day relationships starts falling is the day people can figure out the exact reason they have loved each other. Life is boring if perfect. Life is worse when there is nothing to change about anything.
The balance in life is based on the facts that, there must be thieves and criminals for the police to remain employed. The medical practitioners would run out of business if we are all hale and hearty. The legal practitioners would die of boredom if there are no offenders. If everyone are vegetarians, Oh my! Guess how many people would not earn a living. Christians bring out the best in Christianity because of the presence of Islam. Whites gain from Blacks, Blacks gain from Whites. If everyone is rich, wealth would be meaningless. Who would do the laundry? Who would drive the cars? Who would guard who? Who would keep whose money? The essence for this paragraph is that, if you can read the meaning in this, then you are my woman for sure, for you understand what it takes to live in a better world. We were all created for each other. There is much fun in helping. We can all be better if we accept the fact that we can't live without each other. The world would be a better place if we can start accepting things we can’t change, because the only constant thing in life is CHANGE! Sitting here thinking about you, brings out a part of me that loves everything.
I have a proposal for you this wonderful day, because I know you at least care about me, after all, you wake up to check on my email and know if I'm still alive, lol. That is something. So I want your help today. There is this woman, whom I just met, and I sometimes wonder how she has gotten my attention in such a short period of time, but I would be stupid to submit to fears. I noticed that she already has a place that cannot be replaced in my heart. Who could ever think of hurting such a woman who only wants happiness? I want you to help me find her and tell her, I am not known for fears. I know a journey of a thousand years start with a single step. A man who wants to fly must at least learn to stand on his feet! Kindly tell her if she is willing, I would love to take her hands. I am a man who gives nothing or everything. Once I have her hand, I can promise her forever. Tell her I know this is not going to be a kid walk, tell her I know there are times we would argue in future, but tell her I would teach her to know that even while we argue we would still be holding hands, because there are two sides to a coin. Tell her life is short, but we can make paradise out of it. Tell her, her worries have become mine, because I do not really know how she has done it. Also tell her that coming across her was by chance, communicating with her was by choice, but then falling for her is beyond my control.
You know where to find her my dear, just go to your dressing mirror and you would find her staring back at you. Please look into her eyes and speak this to her for me.
Baby give me your heart, love and trust, for mine is yours now and forever.
Less i forget,i informed the nanny to get the ticket by tomorrow,i really cant wait to meet you in person,would let you know the arrival time and other details once she has gotten it.
Your prince charming,
James
Email 1
Hi ----,
It is already a fulfilled day for me because I am able to get in touch with you. You seem to have the attributes every responsible man would ever wish for.
My name is James,i am a structural engineer,i get to work offshore(on sea) in BVI(british virgin islands),i left Amsterdam a week ago to the UK,but would be leaving for offshore tomorrow,i decided to close my profile because i dont think i would be returning to Amsterdam.i would be having a busy day today,have alot of meetings and shopping since we are leaving for the sea tomorrow,and i also have to go to the bank today to freeze my account,we normally freeze our account before going offshore,due to the fact that we have bad network here,and its difficult for banks to reach us while here,its company policy anyway.
Anyway,my interests are pretty simple: I enjoy dining, art and especially tennis. I'm currently too busy with work to be in a league play but I still play socially and for exercise.
I'm a One Woman Man and not a serial dater, because a serial dater is someone who is immature and this is because he or she cannot focus on one person or one aspect. I don't double date. Clubs and bars are not my thing. Tennis has introduced me to a few women and got me some dates, but nothing serious or long term.
I also enjoy movies. My current favorite is "Man of steel." I generally like movies with surreal premises and/or foreign movies, but I'm not a cinema snob. Romantic comedies, horror flicks and movies with lots of explosions are cool too.
What am I looking for in a woman? I don't like the idea of making a laundry list of qualities or physical parameters that could exclude some wonderful people. I had a painting instructor once tell me that "there are no ugly colors - only ugly color combination" - and I really believe that. My life experience may tell me that I find a personality trait unappealing, but that may be because I've only seen it combined with other traits that were uncomplimentary. So I'd rather not make a list. Let me just say that I'm looking for someone who's looking for someone like me.
I don't like Using obscene language, being disrespected or disrespecting people, poor hygiene and bad attitude.
I can keep writing but it will only get more boring to you. I think these words would print part of my image for you to understand me better. Do you mind sharing some traits you're gifted with? I don't mind you sharing what you think might be horrible about you, I can love horrible things, most especially from a beautiful woman like you.
I will be waiting to hear from you soon.
To be continued...
Thank you
Hugs ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,James
Email 2
Hi ---,
I had a great DAY, with thoughts of you all through. Thoughts of you were so refreshing to me. I feel so great about you. I feel like I have a great companion in my life right now. I have been anticipating writing you an email. Why am I getting addicted to my email? I get a good glow on my face just waking up to read from you which is a wonderful feeling. After so many thoughts all through my dayt, I just had to putting my thoughts into writing to share with you. What wouldn't I do to make my dreams come true? I need a woman to call my own before I loose the best life has to offer me before I get too old. I have come to know that we spend the most of our life seeking for the secondary needs, while our primary needs are left unseen. We have worked so hard and attained some wealth right, but for what purpose? To be realistic, except one wants to be known as a rich person, wealth means nothing if you don’t have a partner to share with. All the millions are useless indeed. How much do we need to eat? How much do we need for shelter? How much do we need for daily fun? Excess and excess leads us to vanity. But for few of us who value the simplicity, we sure would do well in finding happiness. As I always say, money can buy a good bed, but never will money buy sleep. It can buy the best diamond watch, but can never buy time, It can buy piles of books, but can’t buy knowledge. It can buy food, but not satisfaction, Money can buy sex, but can NEVER buy love. That is why, I refuse to follow the crowd, so as for myself, I would give up all that can be bought for that which can’t be bought. I want true joy and happiness. I want my woman to have power over my moods; she can make me smile in all weather.
I am glad that I could get your attention my dear. You have a special thing in your heart, and I intend to find out what it is. It could take a lifetime to figure out, but I don't mind.
so sorry for the late reply,the storm knocked out the internet here.
I will be waiting impatiently to read from you.
Yours charming,
James
Email 3
HI ---,
Hope you are feeling as happy and great as I am feeling after getting back from work and opening my email to see that there was something to read from you, I am so glad that you shared all you did with me, it is really glaring that we are heading in the right direction. It was a great day at work today. Things went as planned and in order all because of the refreshing thoughts of you flowing through my mind.
Who are you? A woman being a goddess, or a goddess pretending to be a woman? Whichever you are, you are doing something special to me. I mean after all these years; I sometimes think I might not have the possibilities again of having my dream woman, my partner, my best friend and co-pilot. I won't be scared anyway, because truly, Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. The inevitable truth is, If it is meant to be, our hearts will find each other when we meet. And if our hearts melt together so will our bodies and souls. Then every word and every touch will fuel our passion flame. I will be yours, you will be mine, and we will be one.
The curiosity of meeting you in person is killing me,really hope to meet you in person soonest,i really want to meet that woman at the other end that makes me smile like a baby,anyway i would be out of here on the 1st of Nov,can i come over and take you out on one date?,thats all i ask,turning me down would really break my heart ,i would travel to the moon to meet you if that is where you are.
What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you have or the lover? It has come to my understanding that you give love a chance to swallow you up and don't just think it will happen in an instant, it will surprise you before you know it, but it will be the most rewarding experience you will ever have.
I thank you for being so open minded and simple as me, I can promise you that the sky is the limit for us.
I long to read from you much more...
By the way,i am 37,read back to my first and 2nd email and you would understand what i do and my goals.
Your Prince charming
Email 4
Hi ----,
Do you think you have listened to your heart? Listen to it and you will find out how much we stand to gain! I am just a man who wants my best friend with me. Someone I can look at and smile for no reason. Someone I can’t wait to get home to be with. Someone to hold in my arms and whisper to her ears. Someone to run my fingers through her ears. Someone who is never afraid of telling her deepest thoughts to me. Someone who sees me more as her twin.sex is needed in a relationship,but definitely not the main thing,its more like the icing on the cake,all i need is a woman with a good heart ,who can stand by me no matter what,so really i am not disappointed at all.
Glad you are also interested in meeting me,if i am to come down to your country to meet you,what airport is the closest to you,would ask my nanny in a couple of days to get my flight ticket with some money i left with her for the kids(it normally more than enough for them),since i am offshore and we normally freeze our account before we go,i cant get it myself anyway,so let me know if 1st of nov,is good enough for u,i just believe no matter how long we chat,we can never truly know eachother untill we meet in person,and you are worth it.
hugs and kisses,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,james
Email 5
Hello My Sunshine,
You must wonder why I call you sunshine, it's because I can't get the picture of you off my mind. The thoughts of you lights up my heart. I feel like giving you a hug. Just as the sun, lights up the earth, you light up my life. You are just a lovely woman with a heart so bright. The only reason this was possible is because you must have portrayed yourself well and you have been the wonderful being you're made of and this is truly the best I can ever wish for of a woman. If I ever fall in love with you for beauty, I won't walk more miles to see more beauty, If I love you for wealth, I won't walk more miles to see more, If I love you for smiles, I would see more on TV, but the only thing I can fall in love with is You, which can't be cloned or gotten from anyone else because its being You that makes me want to give up everything I'm doing just to be with you. Like I said earlier, it takes a life time to try knowing the reason why you feel the way you do with some people. The answers are never there, trust me, the day relationships starts falling is the day people can figure out the exact reason they have loved each other. Life is boring if perfect. Life is worse when there is nothing to change about anything.
The balance in life is based on the facts that, there must be thieves and criminals for the police to remain employed. The medical practitioners would run out of business if we are all hale and hearty. The legal practitioners would die of boredom if there are no offenders. If everyone are vegetarians, Oh my! Guess how many people would not earn a living. Christians bring out the best in Christianity because of the presence of Islam. Whites gain from Blacks, Blacks gain from Whites. If everyone is rich, wealth would be meaningless. Who would do the laundry? Who would drive the cars? Who would guard who? Who would keep whose money? The essence for this paragraph is that, if you can read the meaning in this, then you are my woman for sure, for you understand what it takes to live in a better world. We were all created for each other. There is much fun in helping. We can all be better if we accept the fact that we can't live without each other. The world would be a better place if we can start accepting things we can’t change, because the only constant thing in life is CHANGE! Sitting here thinking about you, brings out a part of me that loves everything.
I have a proposal for you this wonderful day, because I know you at least care about me, after all, you wake up to check on my email and know if I'm still alive, lol. That is something. So I want your help today. There is this woman, whom I just met, and I sometimes wonder how she has gotten my attention in such a short period of time, but I would be stupid to submit to fears. I noticed that she already has a place that cannot be replaced in my heart. Who could ever think of hurting such a woman who only wants happiness? I want you to help me find her and tell her, I am not known for fears. I know a journey of a thousand years start with a single step. A man who wants to fly must at least learn to stand on his feet! Kindly tell her if she is willing, I would love to take her hands. I am a man who gives nothing or everything. Once I have her hand, I can promise her forever. Tell her I know this is not going to be a kid walk, tell her I know there are times we would argue in future, but tell her I would teach her to know that even while we argue we would still be holding hands, because there are two sides to a coin. Tell her life is short, but we can make paradise out of it. Tell her, her worries have become mine, because I do not really know how she has done it. Also tell her that coming across her was by chance, communicating with her was by choice, but then falling for her is beyond my control.
You know where to find her my dear, just go to your dressing mirror and you would find her staring back at you. Please look into her eyes and speak this to her for me.
Baby give me your heart, love and trust, for mine is yours now and forever.
Less i forget,i informed the nanny to get the ticket by tomorrow,i really cant wait to meet you in person,would let you know the arrival time and other details once she has gotten it.
Your prince charming,
James