by ordinaryday
Mon Jul 28, 2014 12:45 am
I have long been interested in scammers and busting them after inadvertently talking to one back in 2012. I was using a dating site and got messaged by a young beautiful girl who claimed to be from where I live but currently "working as a nurse on an aid mission in Nigeria".
I had had absolutely ZERO prior experience with scams before then so i did not recognise the red flags but then she asked to add me on facebook and I did - then the moment I added her she started messaging me IMMEDIATELY about how she is starving, there is no food where she is, she is scared she is gonna starve and she needs $350 real quick, could I send it to her?
I am not stupid, alarm bells immediately went off! I did not believe for one second that literally the ONLY PERSON in the world she could turn to for money was a complete stranger she had exchanged 3 emails with! I googled some of her messages and they all came up on scam busting sites, I realised what she was and immediately blocked her.
this got me wondering though - scammers often do more than just con people out of money, they may break their hearts as well! a lonely person may finally think they have met someone who likes them romantically and get all excited thinking they finally have a relationship - and then not only do they get conned out of money they get their heart broken as well once they realise this person NEVER LIKED THEM, WAS NEVER INTERESTED IN THEM ROMANTICALLY and that they were NOTHING but a source of money to them.
I think this is evil! even the non-romance scams are evil as well! does anyone here know much about what goes on inside the mind of a scammer? do they realise how bad and wrong their behaviour is? or have they been brainwashed into believing that everyone from western countries is rich/evil/greedy/etc so they are actually doing a GOOD thing by ripping them off?
do any of them have a conscience AT ALL? I was reading one story posted by someone scambaiting a scammer and they said they wanted to test whether the scammer had a conscience at all - they were pretending to fall for the romance scam and the scammer needed money for an emergency, and the baiter said something like "I only have some money meant for my two year old daughters life saving surgery. if I send it to you do you promise to return it cos otherwise my daughter will die" and the scammer still wanted the money. obviously they were being baited, but it just shows they have no conscience at all!
so does anyone know how their minds work? do they realise how evil they are? do they care about ruining the lives of their victims? tell me!
I had had absolutely ZERO prior experience with scams before then so i did not recognise the red flags but then she asked to add me on facebook and I did - then the moment I added her she started messaging me IMMEDIATELY about how she is starving, there is no food where she is, she is scared she is gonna starve and she needs $350 real quick, could I send it to her?
I am not stupid, alarm bells immediately went off! I did not believe for one second that literally the ONLY PERSON in the world she could turn to for money was a complete stranger she had exchanged 3 emails with! I googled some of her messages and they all came up on scam busting sites, I realised what she was and immediately blocked her.
this got me wondering though - scammers often do more than just con people out of money, they may break their hearts as well! a lonely person may finally think they have met someone who likes them romantically and get all excited thinking they finally have a relationship - and then not only do they get conned out of money they get their heart broken as well once they realise this person NEVER LIKED THEM, WAS NEVER INTERESTED IN THEM ROMANTICALLY and that they were NOTHING but a source of money to them.
I think this is evil! even the non-romance scams are evil as well! does anyone here know much about what goes on inside the mind of a scammer? do they realise how bad and wrong their behaviour is? or have they been brainwashed into believing that everyone from western countries is rich/evil/greedy/etc so they are actually doing a GOOD thing by ripping them off?
do any of them have a conscience AT ALL? I was reading one story posted by someone scambaiting a scammer and they said they wanted to test whether the scammer had a conscience at all - they were pretending to fall for the romance scam and the scammer needed money for an emergency, and the baiter said something like "I only have some money meant for my two year old daughters life saving surgery. if I send it to you do you promise to return it cos otherwise my daughter will die" and the scammer still wanted the money. obviously they were being baited, but it just shows they have no conscience at all!
so does anyone know how their minds work? do they realise how evil they are? do they care about ruining the lives of their victims? tell me!