by Superducker
Wed Dec 10, 2014 7:41 am
Hello! I just finished with my first scammer ever. I had a profile in one dating site here in Finland. I haven´t had profile for ages so I didn´t know about these international scammers and how wide this is spread. I´m a cautious person so this scammer didn´t got anything but some personal info (which makes me angry of course).
I wasn´t expecting a lot when I put up my profile. I´m a happy single and just wanted to test if there´s some
body who is even worth to write with. This scammer was interesting. I was curious why a person from US searches dating partner from Finland!
I decided to find out what and who he is. He was convincing but he seemed to fell for me too soon and that made me uncomfy.
Here´s his email header:
That IP-address (bold letters) points to Nigeria. He sent me many emails during the month we exchanged emails and all of them points to Nigeria except the first which "came" from USA, North Dakota. Maybe he tried to convince me if I checked his IP.
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Here´s his first email:
Yeah... The much too familiar sob story about late wife and a son living with his mother.
He builded up his story quite slowly and with patience. Maybe it was because he noticed I didn´t fell for him.
He was first in States, then he travelled to Boston and from there he took a flight to London to finish a job. He was a geologist. He wanted to come to meet me from London but...what you´ve known....suddenly he got a contract from Benin, Africa and he had to go there straight away from London. And all the time the IP address pointed to Lagos, Nigeria.
Here´s email when he got that contract from Benin.
Yup, He promised to come to meet me from Africa. I just thought ok, he can come if he want. But he was too syrupu for me and that kept me cautious.
I wasn´t expecting a lot when I put up my profile. I´m a happy single and just wanted to test if there´s some
body who is even worth to write with. This scammer was interesting. I was curious why a person from US searches dating partner from Finland!
I decided to find out what and who he is. He was convincing but he seemed to fell for me too soon and that made me uncomfy.
Here´s his email header:
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Date: Tue, 25 Nov 2014 17:51:22 -0800
From: Kelvin Morgan <[email protected]>
Subject: Development
That IP-address (bold letters) points to Nigeria. He sent me many emails during the month we exchanged emails and all of them points to Nigeria except the first which "came" from USA, North Dakota. Maybe he tried to convince me if I checked his IP.
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Here´s his first email:
Hello XXX,
Thanks for getting back to me, i am happy you responded. I was able to get into this site and read your profile with the help of translator, i am also happy you can read and understand English language, I will tell you about myself without holding back, so i believe as we continue to communicate, we will know more about each other. I am a caring, amiable,hardworking, and honest person who desires a loving,compassionate, and an understanding woman for a real relationship.
I am a widower and a father of an 13 year old son, (Nick). I lost my wife 4 years ago and had remained single since then, but presently my son is with my mother in Italy, i couldn't cope with him after the death of my wife so i took him to Italy to be with my mother, my mother is Italian and she was married to my father till his death. I just felt i should move on with my life because i have been living a lonely life which i have decided to put to an end by getting involved in a real good relationship. I was married for 18 years.
I like taking things one step at a time, i am a strong believer of time, as time tells it all. I am a very dedicated and devoted person, I don't play games, thus; i will expect my partner to be sincere to me too, i will like a relationship built on trust, love and understanding. I believe this is the key to any strong and long lasting relationship. You will get to know more about me as we get along. I don't like preaching about who i am, but i practice as we all know action speaks louder the words. Please if given the chance and opportunity to prove myself to you, you will never have any reason to regret it at all, you look cool, calm, decent and nice and i will like to know you more.Like you also know, it's not all about physical appearances and beauty, i look inwards to the beauty of the heart.
My favorite color is blue, i like watching movies, soccer(football) i go to the gym 2 to 3 times in a week,i like shopping and traveling which my work has contributed immensely to.I am a geologist into drilling and exploration, I am from the United States and live in New York but my job has taken me to a lot of countries and places and that was why i came to Finland (Helsinki) two years ago, and will like to be there again any time soon, this time not for work, i like Finland and the people and if eventually i find love there, i don't mind relocating depending on what we decide( I and my partner). I will also like to know more about you and feel free to ask me any question or anything you will want to know about me, please distance and language shouldn't be a barrier because i am very ready to close it, i can relocate to any where i wish as long as i find love and happiness, at this stage in my life, i want to do things that will make and keep me happy.
I have to stop here for now as i look forward to connecting more with you, do have a lovely evening.
Warm Regards.
Kelly.
Yeah... The much too familiar sob story about late wife and a son living with his mother.
He builded up his story quite slowly and with patience. Maybe it was because he noticed I didn´t fell for him.
Hello XXX,
Thanks for writing me back, i am happy now, i have been waiting endlessly for your email, i almost gave up thinking you are not interested.I have read your email three times now before replying you now. I am very happy you know, write and understand English very well, and i am happy you have an American son In-law. Maybe it's destiny for your family to be affiliated to we Americans (laughing...). Please did your cats perform well in the cat-show ? Thanks for your concern about losing my wife, i have moved on now, it was very difficult for me initially but you know time they say heals wounds.
Of what essence is life without happiness, obviously when there is no love, there is no happiness, its better two than one, even with my achievements in my work, i am still not fulfilled. I want that special woman in my life to grow old with and spend the rest of my life. I want to always come back home to meet the love of my life, share the day's experiences.I want to travel with her, go out for shopping and sight seeing together, I want to cook for my loved one and serve her breakfast on the bed.I want to garden with her, in fact virtually do everything together. Above all, i want to trust, respect and love her with my whole heart. I have been betrayed in the past by friends, so you can understand what i mean.Being in a relationship or falling in love doesn't and shouldn't take away your freedom, you can have someone in your life and still be free, it's all about understanding, you shouldn't be caged because you are in a relationship. Well, it's good
you changed your mind.
Please my dear, i want you to know that whatever i write here is a true representation of what i feel deep inside of my heart, in fact most times it is always difficult expressing once self here by writing, it is always better doing so physically.I want a permanent relationship, a love that will last till the end of time, i am a one woman type of man and seek one man type of woman.Now, i want to give you my words, i am ready to start this life journey with you,my instincts keeps telling me you are the woman i have been praying for all this years, i believe so much in my instincts and it has never failed me unless it will start now, i believe so much in destiny because i believe it's destiny that has brought us together. All i want is for us to be happy, i rather remain single and alone than to be in a relationship to hurt someone or be hurt.
Your email is so detailed and it speaks so much about your person, i don't have so much questions, but as we get along, i can always ask if the need arises. Yes, i came to Finland in 2011 but the research i was meant to do didn't go through again so i left after two weeks.
I want to also let you know that I was born in Palermo, Italy but came back to United States with my parents at the age of 6. I left united State at the age of 16 to attend school in Hamburg Germany. I lived in Germany for 6 years before relocating to Robert Gordon University Aberdeen Scotland where I had my Masters. My long stay abroad makes people to say I have German accent.(funny).
Thanks for the picture of the house, it's a nice and quiet place. Please i will like you to send more pictures to me so i don't have to be going to that dating site to look at your picture. I think i am done with the site, i shouldn't be looking for any other thing there now that i have found you.
I will be traveling to London this weekend, there is this job i started there sometime early this year, the company wants me back for the completion of the job so i have been working on the arrangements. But i can plan to visit you from London on completion of the work which will last for just two weeks.So, like i told you before, i can always come around and we can plan for a future together.
I will start my day early today, i am concluding on arrangements for my trip. Please take care of yourself and have a lovely and productive day today.Remember, i am always looking forward to your emails.
My Regards always.
Kelly
NB: Please sorry for the long email, i promise to make it short next time.
He was first in States, then he travelled to Boston and from there he took a flight to London to finish a job. He was a geologist. He wanted to come to meet me from London but...what you´ve known....suddenly he got a contract from Benin, Africa and he had to go there straight away from London. And all the time the IP address pointed to Lagos, Nigeria.
Here´s email when he got that contract from Benin.
Hello dear,
Thanks for your nice email, and thanks also for letting in me here into you private email, it's good you have applied this cautions by waiting till now.
Today i received an email which disorganized and left me thinking on how best to handle things, Its a good and bad news, good in the sense that i was awarded another contract and the bad is that i won't be coming immediately as earlier planned. There was this contract i bided for with the Government of Benin Republic in Africa long time ago, i have almost forgotten about it because it has taken so long without them getting back to me, only to receive an email and notification from them awarding me the contract.
Well, rejoice with me because i am happy with the contract, it's quite big and profitable, but what i need to do now is to purchase the equipments i will need to supply, ship them down to Africa, then i will fly in and sign the contract, then they will pay me mobilization fees and i will come to see you from there, this process will only take at most one week from the day i leave London , so it's not as if i will spend all the time, when i go back to states, i can then plan to return back there to execute the job.
Good a thing, i am almost rounding up with this job here, the inspection should be on Wednesday and then i will be paid if not the same day, then on Thursday,Initially i wanted us to talk about a favorable date to fly in this weekend before this development. Tomorrow, i will start making inquiries and market surveys for the equipments i need to buy so i can pay for them on Thursday as soon as i am paid, then hand over to the shipper for shipment immediately.
Please my dear, i hope you can understand the situations on ground. I felt very bad about this sudden development because i have already conditioned my mind towards coming to see you this weekend before this came up, at most i will be there for just one week or so and i will come to see you.I am missing you even more now knowing i won't see you by weekend, instead the upper weekend. Please i have also taken note of what you want and i appreciate the fact that you understand its from my heart to get something for you which I appreciate so much.
Please take care of yourself for me, it's just a week gap and we will be together ok
I care so much about you.
My regards always
Kelly.
Yup, He promised to come to meet me from Africa. I just thought ok, he can come if he want. But he was too syrupu for me and that kept me cautious.