Is he a scammer

I have been communicating with this man I met on MATCH.COM for a couple of weeks he is supposedly serving in Afganistan, and has sent me an email address to pay for telephone contact which has brought a very poorly worded and badly laid out response.

He is using the name SGT MICHAEL BROWN

He is also asking me to pay for him to come on leave

I have paid no money HOORAY

Is this man a scammer or a victim like the rest of us simply having his photos used by them]http://scamwarners.com/main//guestupload/20101030234408_Tom10.jpg[/img]

Key phrases:-

serving in Afganistan
sent me an email address to pay for telephone contact
poorly worded and badly laid out response.
He is also asking me to pay for him to come on leave

Anyone who befriends you on a dating/romance/friendship website and then asks you to pay for anything at all is 100% guaranteed to be a scammer. It is not a soldier, it is a scumbag of West African origin, likely Nigeria or Senegal (others too). The pictures are of an innocent person.

Thank you I suspected the man in the picture might be innocent as I stated at the beginning of my post

Welcome here Carol.

As Mac Ramses had pointed out, you can recognise this scam by these points Mac named. But of course, one have to know where to look for first. Could you also post some of the emails that this scammer has send you? Preferably with full headers. If you don't know how to get the headers, just ask.

Yes can someone please tell me how to get the full headers so I can post these correctly

Many thanks

Carol

Carol,

In order to help you with full headers, we need to know how you are checking your email--e.g. are you using yahoo online, gmail online, microsoft outlook, thunderbird, etc....

I am using live.com.au thanks for this

Carol
If you select the email in your Inbox then right click

You should see View Message Source

Click on that and it should open a new window with the Headers copy and paste the results here

Please remove any references to your email address before posting

Hope that helps.....

thank you for this, can anyone tell me how to read this data for myself so I know what I am looking for

thanks
Carol

Hi Carol and welcome. Once you have the headers copied out, you can paste them into this tool which will give you more information about where the email might have originated from: http://www.iptrackeronline.com/header.php
Please be aware that tracking emails this way isn't always accurate for all providers.

He is now using the name Michael Brown Hernandez.

Hello Webgoddess. You aren't an idiot because you had the savvy to ask questions here.
Scammers know how to push the right buttons and are very good at stealing money, which is how people get conned.
It is impossible to report these African criminals but the next best thing is to have them on this site and email addresses searchable by the Google bots.
If this one had been shot he wouldn't be likely to be able to discuss this matter just now. It could be a minor scrape for which he would carry on normal operations, and regard it as a soldiers lot and a narrow escape to laugh at. Or if really shot, as likely or not a bullet would be capable of removing an arm or leg, since it could be moving at 1700 mph. Such a shot leaves a small entrance hole one side and a dinner plate size hole on the other. He wouldn't be discussing leave, but repatriation and hospital treatment. So all this is a lie.
The next round of lies will be fake leave request documents and fake letters from fake Army officials.....

Oh she seems to have vanished with the post I answered

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Frank M

Last Active: Online now!
Profile Views: 751 times
Profile Skin: Default
Tagline: want to meet my dream
Member Since: February 5, 2011
Gender: Male
Location: Dallas, TX
Age: 48
Relationship Status: Single
Interested In: Friends, Dating, Serious Relationship, Networking
Languages: English
Ethnicity: Caucasian/White
Religion: Catholic
Orientation: Straight

Picture (guy in white poloshirt) already posted

hello how are you ,, am sorry i miss you chat ,, this is my email , pls add me so we can have a serious chat at yahoo ,, [email protected] is my id , give me yours as well

His avatar



leads to:
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Email address leads to:

metabot.ru/forum?open=1266418117_4796
Subject: Looking for a sugar mummy
Author: joel E-mail: [email protected]
I'm 24 yrs old guy in campus and working looking for real luv sugar mummy,, call in interest 0278070923

Monday, February 13, 17:44:28 2012

[email protected]

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