Unusual emails

I made the mistake of contacting this supposed 'family' that lives in Germany, after comparing it to others which seem to have the same format "Dear Au Pair..." it seemed to be a real-life person who was responding to my e-mail. But after the 2nd e-mail I noticed some strange thinks that I first passed unoticed but then became clear. Or he/she is either a scammer, a very strange person or just a complete sexual predator.

http://www.easyaupair.com/viewprofilefamily/29431/

First

Au Pair Letter:
It should be OK for you that an aupair is more than a nanny. an aupair means to become a full member of the family and join the family in all they do like taking meal together, shower bathing and intimacy, share free time etc

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Then

hallo dear (...),

thanks for your mail with and your furter interest.
you looked carefully in our profile and you understood what we are looking for. we appreciate that you like our profil. we are convinced that you are qualified.
and you seem to be a grown up woman.
yes we are interested to get in closer contact to you for an aupair job.. before discussing the details we should agree on the general view to be an aupair.
we are looking for a real aupair as a member of the family not just a nanny , as we mentioned already in our profil.
an aupair is more than a nanny.
an aupair means to become a full member of the family is very close to the family and join the family in all they do like taking meal together, share mutual tenderness, shower and bathing, share intimacy, share free time etc. is this Ok for you? there are european reccomendations for the relations between aupairs and their host families. do you know them? you should fully agree to them, as they are basis of our family life also with the aupair.
pls send your details and some nice photos.

you will have no problems in our family to communicate in English. but also outside most of the German people speak some English. nevertheless it would be good for you to learn German when you are here. we will teach you and on top of that you can go to a language school which is very near from our house, only a five minutes walk
we exactly live in Mainz am Rhein a beautiful old hisroric city with a large university very near to Frankfurt am Main

Greetings

After this first e-mail I confronted him with the intimacy stuff, which was getting more weird.
And then

Hallo dear (...),
thanks for your mail and your further interes. thanks also for the photos. you look pretty and attractiv.
maybe its good to send the european recommendations for the ralations between aupairs and their host families. these recommendation are basis of our family life also with the aupair. so you should fully agree.
my sweet babys name is Janna, she is 12 in the meantime

love and hugs


FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS (recommendation of the european community)

Your Au pair should be treated as a daughter of the house, taking her meals with the family and sharing their amusements, its a custom in many European countries being together with the family in shower or in the bath tub cleaning and wash eachother mutually . Under a proper 'Au pair' arrangement the relationship between the hostess and the girl involves acceptance of social equality and is not founded on a mistress-servant basis. It follows that the girl is expected to observe and follow the customs and way of life of the household and to respect the authority of the host and hostess. It is a custom in many european countries that the aupair is tender to the kids and the landlady/landlord and help her/them to be satisfied by kissing touching stroking and giving a massage to the whole body including the private parts so that the landlady/landlord gets satisfaction. it could be done on a mutual basis.

the aupair is allowed and invited about her likes and dislikes and the host family should respect this. Inroom the family is used to wear leisure clothes, only t-shirt blouses or skirts. The aupair should do the same. There should always be a chance for beeing tender mutually.

The success of an arrangement depends on flexibility and goodwill on both sides. The Au pair has come to improve her language skills and will appreciate being talked to and her mistakes explained. Be aware that she will probably be homesick when she first arrives and will need time to settle in. the host family should help by be tender carassing and kisses her to come over the homesickness.

And that's that.

That's very unusual Tactito and it would not be safe to consider any job from someone with that attitude, even if they aren't scammers.

It certainly has features that suggest that it is a scammer but I've never known one make suggestions like that before. Scammers usually only have one interest - money, and by making suggestions like that, they are going to scare away potential victims.

Be very careful with au pair offers of work as most of them will be from scammers I'm sorry to say.

This is not the usual scammer, it could be he is also interested in having sex with you. If you don't want that then stay away from them!

A quick Google shows the guy as a member of a sexual fetishist site.

Looks to me like he's more interested in sex than he is for anyone to look after a child.