Anthony Cavalli - Scam or not scam?

Hello,
I'm subscribed to FindAupair and yesterday I've received an e-mail from a man, which is this:

Our Findaupair.com Locator ID number: 71732

To see our profile click HERE - (Au-pair Login required)

- or enter our Locator ID number here http://www.findaupair.com/search/search_for_family.asp

Our email address: [email protected]

Dear Au Pair, How are you doing? We hope everything is moving well on your side and your family is doing quite well. We are so glad and excited to get in touch with you and hope we can communicate better. We pray things will move smoothly. We shortlisted your profile from http://www.findaupair.com My name is Anthony Cavalli, 45 an accountant, my wife is Maria, she is 36 and a nurse. Our only daughter Lucy is 3 years old and still attending pre-school. We live in a spacious lovely home in London, United Kingdom. My wife used to take care of Lucy but since she started work a few months ago we decided to put her in day care. But we are not really comfortable with the day care center arrangement, we need someone who will be able to see to Lucy's immediate needs and give her special attention. So that is why we contacted you. Although we have a babysitter who comes by a couple days a week we need someone with more experience and who can give our daughter the care she needs and who will love her just the way we do. We are searching for someone special to enter the family and take care of our beloved daughter and also take care of our home when my wife and I are away. Someone who appreciates family values and is ready and willing to be a special friend and 'big sister/brot her' if you like to our daughter. We enjoy doing all sorts of fun things such as going to the movies,barbecue,arts,having friends and neighbors over for lunch, swimming,going to the amusement park. Our daughter enjoys her baby books. We also love cooking and making special delicacies. Your one and only duty will basically be to take care of her, we already have a housekeeper who cleans the house and my wife those all the cooking. We will provide a room for you and your own bathroom either live in or out fully furnished, with a desk phone and computer system with full internet access. Our daughter is a very fun and energetic young lady full of life and happiness. She is a joy to be around and we want the best for her. We are confident the two of you will get along and get to know each other so much better. We will also pay for all document and travel expenses. We are a fun loving family and looking for a kindhearted Au pair who will love and care for our daughter. We hope we can trust you We basically need someone to care and love our daughter just as we do.Kindly get back to us if interested. Cheers! Our email address is [email protected]. You can contact us any time. Best Wishes, Cavalli Family

But when I looked for his profile on the website, I wasn't able to find it because the ID number doesn't exist, and then as you can see he sent me this e-mail from an account ([email protected]) and then answered me from another one ([email protected]):

Dear Au pair,

How are you doing? We hope this mail meets you in good health and hope
you and your family are doing wonderfully well? It is great to hear
from you and we pray eventually you will join our family. Like we
mentioned in our first mail we are in dire need of someone who can
come into our home and take good care of our daughter and most
especially give her special attention. We need someone charismatic and
who is wonderful with children. An Au pair who will love our little
angel exactly the way we do. We would definitely love for you to come
in the summer and take care of Lucy. We know you will have so much fun
in our home because we are all about enjoying life and sharing good
times.

We are a young family and we love doing fun things such as weekend
trips to our cabin where we go fishing, hunting and camping. My wife
makes the best grilled fish in the world if I may add. She also loves
to cook so we usually have family and friends over for dinner parties
and barbecues. We also have family weekends on Sundays after church(we
are Anglicans) where we meet with our extended family members and just
have fun and talk about the previous week. Lucy loves this because she
gets to meet and play with her cousins.

Lucy is very special to us and she is also gifted. She loves sports,
arts, computer games. music and takes piano lessons twice a week. She
is also very funny and lights up the house with her big smile and
funny baby jokes.

But like we wrote earlier due to our tight job schedules we do not
always have time to be there for her. So we basically need you to take
care of her for a few hours till we return. London is a lovely city
full of life and we are positive you will love it here.

As an EU citizen you do not need any special document. We are not in
contact with any other Au pair.

We will pay for all document and travel expenses. Kindly send us your
resume and recent pictures of you so we may know more about you and
perhaps some of the work you have done and if satisfied we will
clarify you more about the more important details and working
conditions including your salary and other matters before finally
sending you a contract letter to make you an official and legal member
of our small but nice family.

Regards to you and your family and we hope to hear from you. All the best.

God bless.

Warmest Regards,
Cavalli Family

I don't know if I should trust him or not, could you please help me?
I've been already defrauded two weeks ago and I don't want to repeat this experience again.
Thank you all in advance for your help!!!

PS: sorry for my bad english!

[AlanJones]

Hello Lola_Bunny and welcome to ScamWarners.

It is definately a scam. You will find the exact same email here viewtopic.php?p=103720#p103720, with only the names changed.

Ok thank you a lot for your help!!