by Essmi
Tue Jul 08, 2008 7:09 pm
Ralph, thanks for taking the time to write the insightful post. You hit on some great truths. If my friend were to read that, he'd argue that the money 'isn't blackened' and dismiss the entire thing because this money is 'stamped'. That would be the detail that would negate your research, in his eyes. I received a letter from a chemist who explained the denial concept perfectly. Here's a part of it:
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Your friend doesn't have to be stupid; the problem is that people will clutch at straws when they are drowning. I have talked to people until blue in the face and it does little good; instead, in desperation they scratch for any detail in the scam that differs in the tiniest way.
"See, mine aren't $100 bills, mine are $50 dollar bills".
"Mine aren't black, they are dark green".
"He didn't approach me, I approached him".
"He didn't wash just 2 bills, he washed 6"
"They didn't wash them with Tebi-Metonic, but with Dufus #14".
Answer all of these and there will always be one more detail that differs because the victim will never stop clutching at the straws. They scratch for a tiny differing detail to keep hope alive.
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Hope is the strength of the whole thing. Anything that reveals the truth is perceived as negativity that will surely cast a shadow on the success of the deal.
My life won't be ruined. It has been affected badly but I'm not the primary victim. And I've left the relationship. Information is being passed on to those who need it, and I leave with a prayer that he will be free from this soon.
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Your friend doesn't have to be stupid; the problem is that people will clutch at straws when they are drowning. I have talked to people until blue in the face and it does little good; instead, in desperation they scratch for any detail in the scam that differs in the tiniest way.
"See, mine aren't $100 bills, mine are $50 dollar bills".
"Mine aren't black, they are dark green".
"He didn't approach me, I approached him".
"He didn't wash just 2 bills, he washed 6"
"They didn't wash them with Tebi-Metonic, but with Dufus #14".
Answer all of these and there will always be one more detail that differs because the victim will never stop clutching at the straws. They scratch for a tiny differing detail to keep hope alive.
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
Hope is the strength of the whole thing. Anything that reveals the truth is perceived as negativity that will surely cast a shadow on the success of the deal.
My life won't be ruined. It has been affected badly but I'm not the primary victim. And I've left the relationship. Information is being passed on to those who need it, and I leave with a prayer that he will be free from this soon.