by JoeE
Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:21 pm
I was referred here by 419 Eater. Here's the message I posted there:
I was advised to come here and see if I could confirm the scam. There have been only a few e-mails, so I will post the first one.
So...yeah. This is a little embarrassing, and I'm going to feel like a shithead if this is real, but I'm really leery about continuing any of this. "She" has not gotten any money from me or personal information other than my e-mail address.
Hello, I'm new here, in case my post count doesn't clue you in. I hope this is the right place to post this.
I am 95% sure I am being scammed, but I'm not 100% sure, so I figured I'd post here to get your opinions.
I've been communicating with this girl (?) on eHarmony for a few weeks. She is very, very pretty, but there are several red flags based on her profile and e-mails. She doesn't appear to be speak/type English as her first language, although the implication from her e-mails is that she grew up in the United States. Additionally, she doesn't appear to be comprehending my e-mails all that well - she doesn't really answer my questions. Which may be just an English language issue.
Additionally, she has the bad personal history - standard for scammers, I guess, but what really surprised me was how quickly "she" brought it up, in considerable detail. My first impulse was to run for my fucking life not because of the scamming but because of the stuff in her past. Why would a scammer want to scare off potential marks...or is that all part of the scheme?
I guess the biggest red flag was that she mentioned she was an art dealer, and she was planning a trip to Nigeria soon, to try and purchase some artwork which would be very marketable in the States. It's possible that she's an art dealer, but c'mon.
She also sent me a large batch of pictures. I did my diligence and searched for all of them at TinEye - I was able to find one, and it appears to have been taken by a photographer living in California, which does jive with her story. It doesn't appear to be off a professional modeling site, I think it's from someone who was taking pictures of her friends. So like I said, I'm not 100% sure.
So, how should I continue? Like I said 95% sure, but I'm wondering if there's anything else I can do to be completely sure. She sure as hell isn't getting any personal information until I can confirm that she exists, in any case.
I was advised to come here and see if I could confirm the scam. There have been only a few e-mails, so I will post the first one.
Scammer? wrote:How are you doing today, thanks for the message, its really nice hearing from you and hope work is good to. I am into buying and selling of artworks and also marketing, More about me I am Originally born in Louisiana, then I move to California when I was 4 and I lived there all my life with families. I moved to Georgia after I broke up with my ex , because I can't handle the situation again. My ex slept with my cousin and my best friend and ended up getting married to my cousin, I guess that is not enough. He came back asking me to marry him and wanted to raped me, but thank God for a friend that saved me and called the cops on him. I decides to move and get my life together and start a new life, about my family, it a nice and loving family but it so painful that I lost my parent when I was 19yrs old, and am left with my uncle and his wife. They are all I have now and their kids, I love my uncle family so much because they are so nice to me and want the best for me. Some of the things I do for fun are cooking, bowling, hiking, going to gym, taking a walk, watch movie, listen to music, going out for a music concert, spending time with my partner and showing him how much I love and care for him. I am conservative , I love to dance, I listen to almost every music and watch any movies too. I have pet and love all pet put I only have the one I can afford to take care of now. I have a dog and love my dog and I enjoy playing around with my dog. Basically I am totally new to this Online dating thing, I have been out of a relationship for 2yrs now,I was hurt real bad and I almost gave up on love but I realized that there might still be someone out there for me and that was why I decided to try e-harmony because I know that e-harmony matches people up base on their personality and what they are looking for...I suffered heartbreak from my ex, it takes me years before I knew he was sleeping with my best friend and my cousin cause I travel some times for an art exhibition or to fews places and country to get art works. But now I feel I should try to meet that special someone out there who could really be the one for me, I want a man that knows a woman worth and know what he want. Some that is independent that can handle all situation and we can grow up our families together. spending time with that special someone and more like my work line which gives me an opportunity to do a lot of things will make me happy, I want someone that will be sincere to me as I hate being lied to. I love my job because I really appreciate been independent and have my own time to plan my life and my family. My Job is to buy and sell artworks mostly Paintings and sculpts, sometimes I travel just to get suitable artworks to sell and I sometimes take break to create some of my jobs and I get private painting jobs also,and on rare cases I travel out of the US like right now I am currently in England UK but I heard there are really good artworks in Nigeria which is in Africa and I plan on going there to see ,but will be there for just 3 or 4days and then head back home, I know that they would be well marketed in the states,I am looking forward to getting my own certified art company so I can employ people and they can travel and get some of the Jobs done. I am Use to stay in California with my Uncle before moving down to Georgia and now I stay alone....I am pretty much new to the area also. And am looking to meet someone that is sincere,caring,understanding,romantic and fun to be with.I have attached some of my pictures...I hope you like them.Why don't you tell me more about yourself and send me some pictures too...
Bye for now
So...yeah. This is a little embarrassing, and I'm going to feel like a shithead if this is real, but I'm really leery about continuing any of this. "She" has not gotten any money from me or personal information other than my e-mail address.