by Nicole
Mon Feb 28, 2011 7:07 pm
Hello
I hope that someone can help or give some advice.
I'm from Russia and I fell in love with one american/swedish guy. By chance I found this site and after reading numerous posts I realized that he could be a scammer. Hope someone will help me to know this))
7 months ago he wrote to my friend on Skype. She doesn't know English so I began to chat with him. We sent our photos to each other. He is so handsome...with full lips...light short hair. In some pics (names of Photos:"don't like me like my car") he was sitting near/in rather expensive car in jeans and a white jacket. In others he is in his room or on the balcony drinking beer (names: "see my capacity" or "in boxers"). All the time he asked me to install 'teamviever'!!! coz his boss didn't let him use Skype in the office. He told he was born in Sweden...then moved to NY...and is working now as a software engineer in Baltimore in SABA Software. I checked it. I found this company and one of its offices is in Baltimore. Also according to his words he opened a hotel in Denver (!!!within 2 months - he decided to open it in Denver coz I gave him this idea!!!) I just couldn't understand why he told me all these coz he didn't know me....I was a stranger for him....a young girl from another country. He told me about his life, friends, work. He was too kind...too sweet..sent me his poems or some songs or some inspirational video...tried to participate in my life...wanted to know everything about me. Every time at the end of our conversations he wished me so many beautiful things (like: kisses and hugs for u/ keep smiling/ sleep well/ miss u/ ya tebya lublu(I love u)/ sweetheart/ dear/ honey and many others). And every time when he called me I could hear him so badly or he was speaking in a very low voice....and his cam never worked...so I could never see him in real. How a software engineer is not able to fix his cam or buy a new one??????? And then he told he was going to his company conference in St. Petersburg in February '11. He wanted me to come to Spb too. Oh....he also told he had a russian girlfriend - Natasha. He loved her so much...but she left him and since that time he had been looking for a real love and finally found it i.e. me)) I really wanted to come to St. P. to see him. But I had to know and to see the man whom I was going to meet. I was afraid of him a bit...coz he could turn out to be a maniac or smth like that. So I began to ask him direct questions to get a confirmation that he was a real man....but no answers followed....he was pretending not to notice them....he avoided answering every time. And then I decided to delete him. It was too difficult for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!Since that moment I've been looking for him throughout the Internet. I found noone. There are different guys with such a name. On Valentine's day I wrote him. There was no answer. Before he had given me his email. Having this I found one advertisement given by him (he is selling fresh payday leads) and there's one more his email.
Is it a scam???
If someone can help....I will tell his name...the 2 emails...and all the information I know about him.
Thanks in advance)
I hope that someone can help or give some advice.
I'm from Russia and I fell in love with one american/swedish guy. By chance I found this site and after reading numerous posts I realized that he could be a scammer. Hope someone will help me to know this))
7 months ago he wrote to my friend on Skype. She doesn't know English so I began to chat with him. We sent our photos to each other. He is so handsome...with full lips...light short hair. In some pics (names of Photos:"don't like me like my car") he was sitting near/in rather expensive car in jeans and a white jacket. In others he is in his room or on the balcony drinking beer (names: "see my capacity" or "in boxers"). All the time he asked me to install 'teamviever'!!! coz his boss didn't let him use Skype in the office. He told he was born in Sweden...then moved to NY...and is working now as a software engineer in Baltimore in SABA Software. I checked it. I found this company and one of its offices is in Baltimore. Also according to his words he opened a hotel in Denver (!!!within 2 months - he decided to open it in Denver coz I gave him this idea!!!) I just couldn't understand why he told me all these coz he didn't know me....I was a stranger for him....a young girl from another country. He told me about his life, friends, work. He was too kind...too sweet..sent me his poems or some songs or some inspirational video...tried to participate in my life...wanted to know everything about me. Every time at the end of our conversations he wished me so many beautiful things (like: kisses and hugs for u/ keep smiling/ sleep well/ miss u/ ya tebya lublu(I love u)/ sweetheart/ dear/ honey and many others). And every time when he called me I could hear him so badly or he was speaking in a very low voice....and his cam never worked...so I could never see him in real. How a software engineer is not able to fix his cam or buy a new one??????? And then he told he was going to his company conference in St. Petersburg in February '11. He wanted me to come to Spb too. Oh....he also told he had a russian girlfriend - Natasha. He loved her so much...but she left him and since that time he had been looking for a real love and finally found it i.e. me)) I really wanted to come to St. P. to see him. But I had to know and to see the man whom I was going to meet. I was afraid of him a bit...coz he could turn out to be a maniac or smth like that. So I began to ask him direct questions to get a confirmation that he was a real man....but no answers followed....he was pretending not to notice them....he avoided answering every time. And then I decided to delete him. It was too difficult for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!Since that moment I've been looking for him throughout the Internet. I found noone. There are different guys with such a name. On Valentine's day I wrote him. There was no answer. Before he had given me his email. Having this I found one advertisement given by him (he is selling fresh payday leads) and there's one more his email.
Is it a scam???
If someone can help....I will tell his name...the 2 emails...and all the information I know about him.
Thanks in advance)